I am a psychologist and I want to help.

I am a psychologist and I want to help. Losing is sad only if something is lost. Not winning is not losing because nothing is lost. Losing a final is a win, the loser of the final wins the second prize. Being last is ok, nothing is lost either. What is important is the experience. What is important is to participate. What is important is to learn from the experience. Do you agree?. Thank you.